Most little girls dream of their wedding from a young age. The dress, the venue and the catering, everything has to be just so. The reality is that no matter the size of the budget or the number of the guests, whether it is formal or informal, weddings are a stressful affair. Here are some tips on how to preserve your sanity while organizing for your big day.
Remember to consider how you would like the alcohol at your reception served, and how much it will cost. An open bar can be very expensive over a long time period. Ask the venue about their various alcohol service options.
After everyone has finished their meals, you can serve a dessert tray at the wedding. This is usually the tradition as you can present a wonderful array of pastries, chocolates and candy for kids to end the night with a bang. This is a great way to send people off.
The dress is usually the single most important part of the wedding, as you will want to look your best and fit at the same time. Develop a price range as to how much you want to spend on your dress and find the best one that fits your budget.
If you have to buy linens for your reception, make sure that they fit your table at home. Another option is to ask family and friends to bring theirs from home so you can just return them, after being professionally cleaned, when you're done. If you have to mix and match you can adjust your color scheme to make it look intentional!
When picking a DJ for your wedding, make sure you choose someone with a great reputation. A bad DJ can ruin your reception, so ask any candidates for their references along with their fees. If a candidate has no references, mark him off the list immediately! If his references are all family, that's another reason to give him the boot.
Here's a fun tip - practice your wedding kiss! You want to make it sincere and not sexy, not too short but not too long. NO TONGUE! Practice how you'll hold your partner's face, if you choose to, or where your hands will be otherwise. You only get one shot, so you'll need LOTS of practice beforehand!
Make sure that you wear comfortable shoes on your wedding day. You will be standing throughout most of the ceremony and dancing for most of the reception, so you do not want to neglect your feet. This does not mean you have to get ugly shoes, just get comfortable, attractive ones.
Although the weather may be at it's peak, you probably don't want to plan your destination wedding for a time when the most tourists are showing up at the location you've chosen. Try to aim for a time when there is a lull, like when kids go back to school in September.
Thank your guests for attending your destination wedding with extra events, so that you can give them the trip of a lifetime. Start with a welcoming dinner at a nice restaurant on the day that they arrive, allowing them to relax and not have to worry about finding a place on their own.
Make the most of your winter wedding by incorporating distinctive natural elements into your decor. For example, look for a venue that will allow guests to enjoy a roaring fire, and the scent of fresh evergreen boughs. Further adding to the cozy touch of winter, feature gourmet hot cocoa, spiced apple cider, or rich wooden accent pieces.
When considering how many ushers you'll need to seat people at your ceremony, know that the common standard is using approximately one usher for every fifty people. In a smaller venue you may only need one usher, especially if the aisle is small and only one group can be seated at a time. Think ahead!
If you don't want to spend a great deal on the wedding, be sure to create a budget before you get started. It is easy to get lost in purchasing items for a wedding as it is an exciting event. If you don't set your budget first, you could suffer in the end when you find you were a bit more frivolous than you wanted to be.
When planning your wedding, you need to talk with your partner about what they want. A man might be tempted to let his future wife decide, and a woman might be tempted to take the lead. Make sure everything is a common decision and that you will both enjoy this special day.
Go to several different shops when you are looking for your dream wedding gown. Although you find one that you think is just what you are looking for at one place, there may be an even better one for a better price somewhere else! It is always better to be safe than sorry!
Think long and hard about where you want your wedding to take place. If you think of the perfect spot to host the wedding, make sure nothing out of the ordinary could force you to relocate at the last minute. Also make sure you don't choose somewhere far away from necessary amenities.
These ideas should help you to have the day you have always dreamed of. Do try to remember that at the end of the day, the most important thing about a wedding is the act of exchanging your vows with the person you love and every other little detail is that, merely a detail.
Remember to consider how you would like the alcohol at your reception served, and how much it will cost. An open bar can be very expensive over a long time period. Ask the venue about their various alcohol service options.
After everyone has finished their meals, you can serve a dessert tray at the wedding. This is usually the tradition as you can present a wonderful array of pastries, chocolates and candy for kids to end the night with a bang. This is a great way to send people off.
If you have to buy linens for your reception, make sure that they fit your table at home. Another option is to ask family and friends to bring theirs from home so you can just return them, after being professionally cleaned, when you're done. If you have to mix and match you can adjust your color scheme to make it look intentional!
When picking a DJ for your wedding, make sure you choose someone with a great reputation. A bad DJ can ruin your reception, so ask any candidates for their references along with their fees. If a candidate has no references, mark him off the list immediately! If his references are all family, that's another reason to give him the boot.
Here's a fun tip - practice your wedding kiss! You want to make it sincere and not sexy, not too short but not too long. NO TONGUE! Practice how you'll hold your partner's face, if you choose to, or where your hands will be otherwise. You only get one shot, so you'll need LOTS of practice beforehand!
Make sure that you wear comfortable shoes on your wedding day. You will be standing throughout most of the ceremony and dancing for most of the reception, so you do not want to neglect your feet. This does not mean you have to get ugly shoes, just get comfortable, attractive ones.
Although the weather may be at it's peak, you probably don't want to plan your destination wedding for a time when the most tourists are showing up at the location you've chosen. Try to aim for a time when there is a lull, like when kids go back to school in September.
Thank your guests for attending your destination wedding with extra events, so that you can give them the trip of a lifetime. Start with a welcoming dinner at a nice restaurant on the day that they arrive, allowing them to relax and not have to worry about finding a place on their own.
Make the most of your winter wedding by incorporating distinctive natural elements into your decor. For example, look for a venue that will allow guests to enjoy a roaring fire, and the scent of fresh evergreen boughs. Further adding to the cozy touch of winter, feature gourmet hot cocoa, spiced apple cider, or rich wooden accent pieces.
When considering how many ushers you'll need to seat people at your ceremony, know that the common standard is using approximately one usher for every fifty people. In a smaller venue you may only need one usher, especially if the aisle is small and only one group can be seated at a time. Think ahead!
If you don't want to spend a great deal on the wedding, be sure to create a budget before you get started. It is easy to get lost in purchasing items for a wedding as it is an exciting event. If you don't set your budget first, you could suffer in the end when you find you were a bit more frivolous than you wanted to be.
Go to several different shops when you are looking for your dream wedding gown. Although you find one that you think is just what you are looking for at one place, there may be an even better one for a better price somewhere else! It is always better to be safe than sorry!
Think long and hard about where you want your wedding to take place. If you think of the perfect spot to host the wedding, make sure nothing out of the ordinary could force you to relocate at the last minute. Also make sure you don't choose somewhere far away from necessary amenities.
These ideas should help you to have the day you have always dreamed of. Do try to remember that at the end of the day, the most important thing about a wedding is the act of exchanging your vows with the person you love and every other little detail is that, merely a detail.